Understanding and Managing Stress
Stress
How do daily disorders contribute to stress? Small annoyances and irritations of everyday life cause feelings such as:
Pressure: From internal and external forces, pushing us to intensify efforts and improve performance.
Frustration: Feeling frustrated when something or someone comes between us and our objectives, delays, failures, or lack of resources.
Conflict: Faced with two or more goals, needs, or opportunities.
Types of Conflict:
- Approach-Approach: Attracted by incompatible goals.
- Avoidance-Avoidance: Faced with two undesirable possibilities.
- Approach-Avoidance: Simultaneously attracted and repelled by the same goal.
Coping with Stress
What’s the Difference Between Direct and Defensive Coping?
Direct Coping: Taking action to change an uncomfortable situation.
Strategies:
- Confrontation: Facing a stressful situation and admitting there’s a problem to solve.
- Compromise: Adjusting expectations and desires.
- Removal: Avoiding the stressful situation, which can become maladaptive.
Defensive Coping: Convincing oneself they are not threatened or cannot have what they want.
Forms: Defense Mechanisms
- Denial: Refusing to acknowledge a painful reality.
- Repression: Excluding unacceptable thoughts or impulses from consciousness.
- Projection: Assigning feelings or motives to others.
- Regression: Childish behavior in situations of dependency.
- Intellectualization: Distancing oneself from a disturbing situation through analysis.
- Reaction Formation: Expressing exaggerated ideas and emotions opposite to one’s true feelings.
- Displacement: Redirecting repressed feelings to substitute objects.
- Sublimation: Transforming repressed emotions into socially acceptable ways.
How Stress Affects Health
Lasting Effects of Stress
Hans Selye’s Three Phases:
- Alarm Reaction: The body recognizes a physical or psychological danger.
- Resistance: Physical symptoms intensify as direct and defensive coping strategies are used.
- Exhaustion: Defense mechanisms become less effective in managing stress.
Causes of Extreme Stress
Sources include unemployment, bereavement, divorce, separation, war, and catastrophes.
Post-Traumatic Stress: An emotional disorder with symptoms like anxiety, insomnia, and nightmares.
Well-Adjusted Person: Lives according to social norms or overcomes challenges leading to maturation and self-realization.
Consequences of Stress
Physical Problems: Tiredness, sweating, tachycardia, muscle tremors, weight changes, allergic reactions.
Psychological Problems: Fatigue, depression, poor concentration, poor memory.
Behavioral Problems: Crying, aggression, isolation, sleep problems.
Stress Factors
- Major Life Events: Serious illness, bereavement, marriage, marital conflicts, retirement, bankruptcy.
- Everyday Problems: Theft, violence, tests, self-image issues.
- Environmental Stress: Noise, traffic, pollution, cataclysmic events.
- Work-Related Stress: Location, type, schedule, workload, accumulation of functions, depletion, unemployment, sexual harassment.
- Sociocultural Factors: Socioeconomic status, migration, gender, retirement.
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
Triggered by war or personal experiences involving death or kidnapping.
Symptoms: Flashbacks, nightmares, sleep disturbance, physical and mental problems.
Comorbidity: Substance abuse, major depression, panic disorder.
Coping with Stress
Emotion-Focused: Long-term effort, controlling emotional response, seeking social support, distancing from the stressor, using alcohol or drugs.
Problem-Focused: Speedy efforts to handle stressors, everyday challenges, problem-solving skills.
Differences in Approach: Gender (women often respond better emotionally, while men focus on problem-solving), social status (higher stress with power and money requirements).
Factors Affecting Coping Ability
Positive Style: Vigor, resilience, persistence, audacity, healthy, cheerful, optimistic, viewing stress as a challenge.
Negative Style: Pessimism, low self-esteem, leading to failure, guilt, and unachieved goals.
Stress Management
- Physical Activity: Exercise improves self-esteem, offers psychological benefits, and controls anxiety.
- Relaxation Therapy: Yoga.
- Social Support: Feeling loved and encouraged by friends and family helps overcome stress, promoting happiness and health.