Understanding and Managing Stress

Stress

How do daily disorders contribute to stress? Small annoyances and irritations of everyday life cause feelings such as:

Pressure: From internal and external forces, pushing us to intensify efforts and improve performance.

Frustration: Feeling frustrated when something or someone comes between us and our objectives, delays, failures, or lack of resources.

Conflict: Faced with two or more goals, needs, or opportunities.

Types of Conflict:

  • Approach-Approach: Attracted by incompatible goals.
  • Avoidance-Avoidance: Faced with two undesirable possibilities.
  • Approach-Avoidance: Simultaneously attracted and repelled by the same goal.

Coping with Stress

What’s the Difference Between Direct and Defensive Coping?

Direct Coping: Taking action to change an uncomfortable situation.

Strategies:

  • Confrontation: Facing a stressful situation and admitting there’s a problem to solve.
  • Compromise: Adjusting expectations and desires.
  • Removal: Avoiding the stressful situation, which can become maladaptive.

Defensive Coping: Convincing oneself they are not threatened or cannot have what they want.

Forms: Defense Mechanisms

  • Denial: Refusing to acknowledge a painful reality.
  • Repression: Excluding unacceptable thoughts or impulses from consciousness.
  • Projection: Assigning feelings or motives to others.
  • Regression: Childish behavior in situations of dependency.
  • Intellectualization: Distancing oneself from a disturbing situation through analysis.
  • Reaction Formation: Expressing exaggerated ideas and emotions opposite to one’s true feelings.
  • Displacement: Redirecting repressed feelings to substitute objects.
  • Sublimation: Transforming repressed emotions into socially acceptable ways.

How Stress Affects Health

Lasting Effects of Stress

Hans Selye’s Three Phases:

  1. Alarm Reaction: The body recognizes a physical or psychological danger.
  2. Resistance: Physical symptoms intensify as direct and defensive coping strategies are used.
  3. Exhaustion: Defense mechanisms become less effective in managing stress.

Causes of Extreme Stress

Sources include unemployment, bereavement, divorce, separation, war, and catastrophes.

Post-Traumatic Stress: An emotional disorder with symptoms like anxiety, insomnia, and nightmares.

Well-Adjusted Person: Lives according to social norms or overcomes challenges leading to maturation and self-realization.

Consequences of Stress

Physical Problems: Tiredness, sweating, tachycardia, muscle tremors, weight changes, allergic reactions.

Psychological Problems: Fatigue, depression, poor concentration, poor memory.

Behavioral Problems: Crying, aggression, isolation, sleep problems.

Stress Factors

  • Major Life Events: Serious illness, bereavement, marriage, marital conflicts, retirement, bankruptcy.
  • Everyday Problems: Theft, violence, tests, self-image issues.
  • Environmental Stress: Noise, traffic, pollution, cataclysmic events.
  • Work-Related Stress: Location, type, schedule, workload, accumulation of functions, depletion, unemployment, sexual harassment.
  • Sociocultural Factors: Socioeconomic status, migration, gender, retirement.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

Triggered by war or personal experiences involving death or kidnapping.

Symptoms: Flashbacks, nightmares, sleep disturbance, physical and mental problems.

Comorbidity: Substance abuse, major depression, panic disorder.

Coping with Stress

Emotion-Focused: Long-term effort, controlling emotional response, seeking social support, distancing from the stressor, using alcohol or drugs.

Problem-Focused: Speedy efforts to handle stressors, everyday challenges, problem-solving skills.

Differences in Approach: Gender (women often respond better emotionally, while men focus on problem-solving), social status (higher stress with power and money requirements).

Factors Affecting Coping Ability

Positive Style: Vigor, resilience, persistence, audacity, healthy, cheerful, optimistic, viewing stress as a challenge.

Negative Style: Pessimism, low self-esteem, leading to failure, guilt, and unachieved goals.

Stress Management

  • Physical Activity: Exercise improves self-esteem, offers psychological benefits, and controls anxiety.
  • Relaxation Therapy: Yoga.
  • Social Support: Feeling loved and encouraged by friends and family helps overcome stress, promoting happiness and health.